My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

are suspiciously dramatic words for someone holding my good fork.”

Her smile appeared immediately, almost with relief. “You own three forks. I refuse to recognize a hierarchy.”

The joke worked. That was the problem with ten years of practice: we could rescue each other from almost anything, including the conversations we needed to have. Elise cut another slice and offered it to me. I accepted, though I could barely taste the raspberry.

“Everybody knows?” I asked.

“About the party? Yes. I texted them last night.”

“And they’re all fine with