My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

came along because you asked beautifully enough.”

She stopped.

The words had surprised me by being the ones I meant.

“I’m afraid,” I admitted. “But I don’t want you doing all the work of getting us past that.”

For a moment, she looked at me as though she were trying to decide whether this was one more elaborate form of delay. Then I held out my hand for the list, and she gave it to me.

I folded it once.

“There are things we can’t finish today,” I said. “The