My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

was quiet for a moment.

“What?”

“Nothing,” she said. “I like that this is the conversation.”

I understood.

No retreat into birthday excitement. No careful announcement that we should think about what had happened. We were discussing the practical shape of a Sunday because neither of us needed the ordinary day to disprove the extraordinary one.

“I’m still choosing it,” I said.

“I know.” Her voice softened. “Me too.”

I arrived with coffee half an hour later. She opened the door in an old sweatshirt, took one cup, and kissed