My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

list,” I said.

“It was added before graduation.”

“An unauthorized amendment.”

“Take it up with the committee.”

“Elise.”

She held out her hand.

I looked at it, then at the people passing the café tables. I could have used the joke again: pedestrian access, public space, one of the principles I defended professionally. She would have laughed, and we might have found another way to postpone the part that mattered.

Instead, I took her hand.

“Not here,” I said. “Over there.”

I led her to the clear square of pavement