My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

you I was having a bad week.”

She rubbed her thumb along the seam of her jeans.

“And I’d start wondering whether I’d imagined the no.”

“I did the same thing,” I admitted.

“With other people?”

“With us. I’d decide we were simply close, then find myself disappointed when you made a plan that didn’t include me.”

She gave a small, humorless laugh.

“We’ve been very considerate.”

“Spectacularly.”

The shared word allowed us a moment of relief. Then Elise looked down at her hands again, and I understood she had