My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

meetings.

“Do you want to explain it badly to me first?” I asked.

She smiled.

“Yes.”

So she did.

I listened, interrupted twice, and earned a complaint about the second interruption being unnecessary. Then we discussed my latest route consultation and the particular exhaustion of having a meeting about a meeting that should have been an email. We did not spend the entire meal excavating college.

That mattered.

I had chosen the restaurant because it belonged to the woman she was now. Sitting across from her, I realized that dating