My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

I reached across the table.

“You don’t have to make it smaller for me.”

She looked down at our joined hands.

“Neither do you.”

I had spent the day learning how much honesty could cost. I had not expected the relief it brought when someone met it without looking away.

When the plates were gone, I took the list from my pocket and laid it between us. The paper was softer now, its old folds almost white. A small mark of raspberry frosting stained one corner.

I handed her the