My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

pen.

“What do you want the first day of your next decade to contain?”

She studied the page.

Then she drew a clean line through the final entry.

Not through the initials.

Through the waiting.

Beneath it, she wrote: Stop using someday when we can choose a date.

I took the pen and added the following Saturday, a time, and the museum exhibition we had discussed weeks earlier without ever deciding when to go. Elise read it, then added a note about asking my father whether he wanted lunch afterward.