My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

next thing.”

“You don’t have an itinerary?”

“Only a beginning.”

I looked at her carefully. Elise designed museum exhibits for a living, arranging rooms so strangers could move toward a discovery without noticing how deliberately the route had been built. She was very good at giving people the experience she believed they needed. I suddenly wondered how long she had been arranging this morning.

“If we’re doing this,” I said, “you can’t decide what everything means by yourself.”

Her hand stopped above the cake.

“I mean it. It’s your birthday.