My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

But the list is ours.”

For a moment, she looked as though I had criticized a gift before opening it. Then her shoulders eased. She glanced at the page, and I watched her recognize the difference between inviting me into something and guiding me through it.

“Motion carried,” she said.

I smiled. “I’ll get dressed.”

In my bedroom, I stood with the wardrobe open longer than necessary. I could hear her moving plates into the sink. The sound was domestic, unremarkable, and suddenly so full of possibility that I had