My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

hard enough to leave impressions in the paper. At twenty-two, I had apparently believed emotional experiences benefited from enforceable procedures.

Then I noticed her notes.

Beside the bus ride: both of us.

Beside the northern lights: both of us.

Beside an entry about finding somewhere neither of us had been: the same two words.

Near the bottom, a deliberate fold concealed the last line.

I started opening it.

Elise put her thumb on the crease.

“Later.”

The word was quiet enough to stop me more effectively than a joke.

She