My Best Friend Spent Her Thirtieth Alone With Me—Finishing Our College “Someday” List

reached into her jacket and took out a photograph: the two of us against the library wall after an overnight study session. I remembered the sweatshirts, the cold, our friend Priya complaining that we would miss graduation if we kept moving.

I did not remember this.

In the photograph, I was smiling at the camera.

Elise was looking at me.

I looked up.

“Why did you cancel the party?”

She held my gaze for a moment, then glanced toward the folded line.

“Because I’m thirty today,” she said. “And I’m